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Note to Self – On Pain

Note to Self – On Pain

Dear Self, Sometimes soon is never nearly soon enough and the pain you imagine you can’t bear for another minute seems to do everything but subside. It aches and nudges, a constant reminder that you are not nearly as far along this journey as you […]

You Already Know

You Already Know

It’s only a problem if you don’t have a solution.  Too often we know the solutions to the dilemmas we face but we are too weak or self indulgent to take action and make a choice as needed. We know the ‘right’ thing to do […]

Short PSA

Short PSA

If after a considerable amount of time on your journey you discover that the sights are not at all what you expected and the approaching destination is other than that which you desire,  IT IS OK to pull over, take stock, change course and start moving toward the destination your heart desires. There is no shame in saying “I’m lost,” or “This is not where I want to be.” It’s ok to get it wrong or to be unsure. What is not ok is to keep going down an undesirable path because of fear or pride. Detours and stop overs are fine, as long as you are always moving toward a destination that you want. You only get one ride. So make sure it’s to where YOU truly want to go.